In his report on the New Ways Ministries’ 2012 conference From Water to Wine: Lesbian/Gay Catholics and Relationships, Chuck Colbert summarized the main addresses, but also presented some questions by participants – and their reasons for attending. The reason given by one couple also offers insight into how they approach being lesbian and Catholic back home, in their parish:
Chicagoans Karen Allen and her partner, Mary Jo Hoag, attended the gathering, this their second one.
“What brings me here is the chance to be rooted in my faith and with the people of God and to be sent forth to create loving communities,” said Allen, who leads a gay and lesbian family-and-friends ministry at St. Nicholas parish in Evanston.
Allen said the parish group grew out the idea she and others got 10 years ago at the Louisville, Ky., New Ways symposium.
In proposing the idea, she explained, “We were welcomed to do so by our pastor at the time, who said, ‘Where have you been?'”
The ministry is about education and prayer and not so much advocacy, Allen said, but “more about how can we as gay and lesbian Catholics live fully integrated, authentic lives in our tradition.”
“Many have walked away [ from the church ] but returned in mid-life,” she explained, while readily acknowledging, “struggling mightily” with “clericalism and the hierarchy.”
“The church is our church,” said Hoag, explaining why she stays. “Many of us are cradle Catholics who grew up with the rituals, sacraments, and the teachings and feel comfortable. We are gifts to the church and shouldn’t go away, as we provide those gifts of love and understanding and outreach.”
New Ways Ministry, Allen added, provides us “a shot in the arm” to keep up our work in ministry.
- Symposium Provides “Shot in the Arm” for Participants (newwaysministryblog.wordpress.com)